Wednesday, October 14, 2015

The shitty business of bathrooms

Moving from one office space to another is a trivial matter of discussion—there’s nothing to it. But finding solace in a washroom, whether it is to relieve oneself or to cry secret tears or even to control that fit of giggles is almost a matter of life and death—to me, it truly is! So when I heard that my team is moving to another space, what bothered me the most was not the sub-zero temperatures or clinical lighting of the new workspace; but the fact that there were no loos inside the office. Imagine having to ping yourself out from the office and walking more than a couple of meters away, to a space that’s shared by a truckload of employees from different companies! I was appalled. What would happen to touch-ups or even quick gossip sessions that ladies’ washrooms are so known for? The more I thought about it, the more devastated I felt.

I have an unexplainable obsession with loos. I am not sure when I was struck by lightning, but I remember being revolted by school bathrooms—where little (and sometimes not so little) dumplings lay casually on the floor, when they should really have been inside the pot. In college, the situation was definitely much better; but I had ample opportunities to witness the “gross” underbelly of public toilets.



Train toilets were frightening. For long journeys I completely skipped the big business, sticking to just number 1 because THAT I cannot control! But bus journeys—and I have limited their incidence for this one obvious reason—were the worst. Stopping at roadside “rest rooms”, was more “unrest-ing” than anything in this world. You see, adult dumplings are not exactly, well, dumplings. They are humongous mass of grossness left in the open, with the cruel intention of psychologically scarring unsuspecting individuals who are looking for that one clean, dry spot they can squat on. But hell no! That one square centimetre spot is not to be found in a wayside loo.

Airline loos on the other hand are a nightmare for Indians like me, who believe in the indispensability of water. Plus, the flush sounds like the roof came down, and the lack of space just makes you feel so much closer to what’s going down under, it’s not funny.
Then there are loos in railway stations, restaurants, shopping malls, and more that offer plentiful opportunity of ‘visual treat’ and ‘olfactory pleasure’ that I have gone through, not only because of my seemingly tiny bladder; but also because the daughter wants to go at all the wrong places and at the wrong time.

All said and done, I love the peace and quiet of a bathroom. My own that is. It’s where I read – don’t look shocked. A lot of people read in the loo, and I admit to being one of them. The loo is also where I don’t (usually) get harassed by the daughter. Or the mother. Or the husband. It’s my “me-time” place, believe it or not.

But coming back to the problem of the washroom at the end of the 100 feet road in my office building (dripping with sarcasm coz a 1000 pound migraine is blinding me as I write this) – it’s put everything in jeopardy. From having to “hold it in” because the loo is too far, to having no access to all-anytime preening, this has been quite tragic. Not to mention, no toilet paper! But in spite of the headache, I’ll try looking at the bright side. The distance ensures I walk longer, faster, which turns out to be good exercise – I am in the “let’s get my body moving” phase right now.


Look at this blog! I have rambled about bathrooms way too much. But hey, my tryst with washrooms is far from over. There are so many more to explore and experience. So much more to witness and run away from. And many to find solace in (provided there are no dumplings!).

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